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The Write Life | Karin Tabke: Author of Sensual Romance
Shutting Down For The Summer!
June 9th, 2010

Yep, I am.  It wasn’t an easy choice, but my deadlines have blurred into each other and I must protect the work.  So, while I’m not fleeing to the Hamptons like Castle did (although if I could I would, how swaaweet would that be?), I am hunkering down to get some really quality writing done!   I’ll still be over at Murder She Writes with my killer goils every other Friday, I’ll also be at National.   I hope to kick off my return with a First Line Contest.  :)   While I won’t be blogging here, I’ll occasionally pop in on FB, and you can always email me at KLTabke@aol.com.

So long for now. Happy reading, and have a fabulous, summer, and here’s to gearing back up this fall!

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Ciao,

Karin*

They Need Our Help
May 19th, 2010
From my friend Toni:
Please bear with me for this. This is a personal plea.
When Katrina hit, so many people lost so much, it was overwhelming. We made the news, constantly. We watched as FEMA responded so ineptly, that a week to a week-and-a-half out, there still wasn’t help in critical areas.
What you may not know about is that I was one of the few bloggers who had connectivity during the hurricane itself, and the aftermath. Because Carl (my husband) had managed to rig up my computer to a generator, I was able to blog and get the word out that the situation was much much worse than was being reported by the national news sources. I wasn’t the only one, but I was one of the few. My broadcasts were picked up by an NBC affiliate, which then syndicated them around the world.
People wrote to me, to ask me what I needed. In the days immediately following Katrina, as many of you remember, there were simply no goods on the shelves to buy. There was no help to speak of. Carl and I personally went into areas in New Orleans, Metairie, Covington, and Harahan to shelters where we found they were out of water, food, diapers, and personal hygiene items. We also went into the LSU triage area where they had zero– and I mean *zero*–supplies left, and 300 more people being bussed in at that moment. We scrambled to find things like thermometers, and bandage supplies. Carl built them shelves so they could get the supplies up off the floor.
But where did those supplies come from? Let me tell you — it came from friends on the internet.
I put out a call to people on the internet to ask for things we couldn’t find. All of the above items, and more. I expected maybe one or two boxes from dear friends would show up. Maybe. After all, everyone assumed FEMA or the Red Cross were going to take care of us, and they had donated. Well, we all know how that went.
You know what happened? I heard the mail truck backing up to my door. He’s never backed down my driveway, so I knew something was up. The *entire* mail truck was full of boxes of supplies that people had sent–some from as far away as England–and that was only the first load. Every day, he kept coming, and every day, the supplies poured in. We processed over 2000 boxes here at our house until the following week, when the shelters finally started getting help from FEMA and the Red Cross. We housed a doctor and a nurse who’d dropped everything they had to come and help.
Everything they had. That doctor worked 20 hour shifts, for three weeks. I don’t know how that man did it, but he pushed himself hard, for free, because that’s what he does–he’s a trauma surgeon and he dropped his practice to come help.
He is from Nashville.
Look, I know we have all seen terrible things happen all over the world. It’s hard to know what to do and the knee jerk reaction is to give a little bit and forget about it. Well, these people didn’t forget about us. They came. They gave. Thousands of boxes. At one point, a huge box truck backed up into our driveway, sent by an amazing group in Chicago, with another two thousand boxes of supplies. We brought these supplies into shelters where the elderly were sleeping on gym floors in 95+ degree temperatures. Where little kids had nothing to eat and most of the families had nowhere to go.
Right now, Nashville is flooded and hurting and they have gotten maybe fifteen minutes of national coverage. It’s offensive and insane that people who are clearly trying to help themselves should be ignored.
I have researched charities, and I have found one where 100% of the proceeds go directly to flood relief. The families who are affected can apply for grants for everything from trash bags for clean-up to fans to dry out their homes to food and money to help them find a place to stay until the water recedes and they can begin clean-up in earnest. 100% people. You just don’t get any better than that.
This unit is an emergency unit which is activated by the governor of Tennessee (and is paid for as a part of their governmental expenses, so it doesn’t require one penny of donated money to operate). They are annually audited by outside CPAs to confirm they are handling the money correctly.
So I am asking, this once, for you to give. I won’t make a habit of this, but I cannot sit quietly by and hope that Louisiana does itself proud and gives back to the people who gave so much to us. 
Please, consider giving. Any gift, any size, will help. We’re pledging $1000.00. We’re asking you to pledge at least $5. Or match us. Or beat us. 
I hope you will consider this; I hope you’ll organize donations at your place of business, or with friends and family. I hope you’ll send this letter on, so that these people will know they are not forgotten.
Thank you,
Toni McGee Causey

Toni McGee Causey
Charmed and Dangerous
Girls Just Wanna Have Guns
When A Man Loves A Weapon
http://tonimcgeecausey.com http://twitter.com/ToniMcGeeCausey
MIA For A Reason
May 14th, 2010

And my profuse apologies, but I am overwhelmed at the moment.

Karin*

Happy Mother’s Day!
May 8th, 2010

We deserve a month!   But I’ll take a day.  Have a great one!

Karin*

Is It Selling Out?
April 27th, 2010

 

So, I’ve been watching American Idol from the first show this season, and while I’m not as jazzed and wowed by the top 12 the judges picked as I have been in the past, and Kara gets on my nerves and I miss Paula (yeah go figure I miss Paula!), I’ve hung in there, mostly because of Casey who I liked from the moment he took off his shirt (and truth be told, his chest wasn’t all that, it’s his smile that gets me, but I digress!) and Big Mike. 

Big Mike is a fave because of his situation, him auditioning for what could change his life and his family’s life forever, while that family he so desperately wants to protect and support was being born, and he wasn’t there.  I like this guy.  I respect what he gave up.  I respect how hard he’s working to make it worth missing the birth of his first child.  For not being there at the most precious moment in a father’s life.  I want him to shoot to the stars and into the next galaxy.  I want Big Mike to win big, whether it’s as the next American Idol or in whatever endeavor he chooses.  Is he the most talented of the bunch?  No.  I think Lee and Casey have it over him.  But I just want good for Big Mike 

So, let’s talk talent, I’m biased, I think Casey has the whole package and I think Lee’s voice is fantastic, and he has really come along in selling himself to the audience. Then there is Crystal. Talent in every cell of her body.  But here’s where I have a huge problem with her: To me, she’s unappealing.  Is it me?  Or is she kind of a turn off?  That aside for a moment, I did not care for her performance tonight.  Is it me or is she getting a wee bit too cocky?  Remember when Chris what’s-his-name got cocky?  Off with his head!  Others whose names I cannot recall suffered the same fate.

Look, I get Crystal wanting to stay true to who she is, and her dreads. I know she fights the stylists at every turn, except that one night she wore heels.  But doesn’t she want to win?  Is it selling out if she compromises not her talent but her commercial appeal just for now?  Just long enough to grab the prize then do it her way?

Many of you are probably saying, “To thine own self be true!” And you’re right but at what cost?  To appeal to more folks from whom she would garner more votes and win the AI title, she doesn’t have to comprise her talent, just her commercial appeal.  If I were her, especially after this last performance, and if I survived this week, I’d make the switch.  Not a radical change, it’s too late for that but some serious subtle stuff.  And I’d find some humility like yesterday!

Is it really selling out doing it that way?  Or is it just a way to finally grab that elusive contract so that now you have your foot in the door and can do it your way?

Karin*

A Common Misconception
April 23rd, 2010

That’s what I’m blogging about over at Murder She Writes today!

Karin*

National Weed Day!
April 20th, 2010

 

Who knew?  The only reason I know this is because we’re going to a wedding tonight of all nights because it is 4/20, National Weed Day, which is the day the bride and groom wish to celebrate their wedding anniversary.  Hey, to each his own.  I think it’s great they stayed true to themselves. I’m going to drag hubby along.  He’s not happy with me.  He’s still on regular pain meds and well, they don’t make him feel so good.  If the wedding wasn’t family we’d stay home.

Anyhoo, I think it’s going to be a fun time.  I’m wearing an orange and white tie-dye maxi dress, all I need is a floppy hat, but it’s cold and rainy today so I’ll tone it down with a wrap. 

So this brings me to my question what is the wackiest wedding you’ve ever attended?  My youngest daughter went to a Halloween wedding at a haunted hours in San Francisco a few years ago.  She said it was a blast.

Karin*

Workin’, Workin’ For A Livin’…Workin’
April 15th, 2010

(Rant alert!)

I’m amazed at the amount of people who, especially in this harsh economy, have no concept of the above.  Sorry, Charlie, if your family needs to eat, pick up a shift at Micky D’s. 

Is it me or does Gen X seem entitled?  So many of them have their hands out, palm up and just expect.  What?  You want me to do your job?  Me to get you a job?  Me to keep your job?  Me to do the work while you said you tried, and point fingers at others because you can’t keep a job?  How many jobs does one have to have before they understand you need to roll up your sleeves and do the freaking work!  Sorry if you don’t like your job, work a side deal i.e. more schooling, learning a trade, to make it so you don’t have to do the job you don’t like, but keep the job you have while you’re bettering yourself!

What got me to thinking about all of this was the other day I was getting my nails done, and the gals had on an episode of Keeping Up With The Kardashians.  One of the K girls is pregnant, (I think she had her baby tho’) and the baby daddy, Scott, is a smarmy piece of work.  I guess the Kardashian mom got him a job, and he showed up drunk at an important meeting and embarrassed the hell out of her.  He goes on to tell the camera, there is nothing he can do right for any Kardashian.  Wah wah wah!  Who is this guy?  Now, I think those girls work.  He doesn’t.  So he’s going to sit around and live off the girlfriend?  Kind of like that smarmy Jon is living off of Kate?

What’s up with these chicks picking loser guys?  Where the hell is the bar?  Not the one with alcohol but the one you lift way above your head and don’t lower, under any condition!  Are girls lowering the bar because the quality of choices is so sub standard?  I see more females out there kicking ass then guys.  Is it ok for guys to kick back and let the ladies take over? Fine, but who wants a guy like that? 

I guess I’m old fashioned.  I want my man to do it all and make me feel like the only woman in his world.  Don’t get me wrong, I’m right there along side him working just as hard, with my bar held high over my head.  I never have, nor will I ever settle, I deserve the best.

Why do so many women, young and mature, today think they don’t?

 Karin * who thinks there should be a Beware of This Smarmy Guy website for all women!

One Click Away
April 8th, 2010

I’m over at Murder She Writes today!   C’mon on over!

K*

Happy Easter!
April 4th, 2010

Catalina was gorgeous but coming home was gorgeouser!

Gianna's first Easter

Have a very blessed day!

Karin*




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